I am in a fight with them men in my office (idiots, kidding). Here are the facts . . .
“A” likes this girl Stella, they have gone on two dates so far (one of my recommendation to Mccormick and Schmicks in Schaumburg!) Both according to “A” were successful.
I asked if he had another date planned yet. . . and he informed me she told him that she told her mother she would keep every day open for the next two weeks to help her grandparents move to their new apartment. Now I will preface this by saying that both are Jewish. I say this because I want to know if that changes things. I am a E & C Catholic (Easter and Christmas Mass attender) so I am unsure of the Jewish territory.
Now I asked the tough question. I asked when was the last time Stella called you? He replied “after I left her a message the other day”.
“So she has never just called you just on her own without returning a message?”
“No”
So I said in the spirit of “He is just not that into you” well that doesn’t seem like a good sign. A girl who is interested and likes you calls you. We want to know more about you. We want to learn what makes you tick. No call = Not interested.
With that all the men in my office chimed in and to my shock and amazement ( I like to think I am a man advice guru ) they all disagreed with me saying it was to early to call. What do you think?
I asked one other women in my office who is in her forties and she agreed with the men, am I off my rocker?
PLEASE LET ME KNOW, settle the dispute people!!!! My guru title is on the line!
Till Then,
Haley Girl
